Control Handle How do I handle someone who cant control his temper?
and what do i do when he explodes..?!
You do not "handle" someone who can't control his temper. They must "handle" or rather "control" themselves. If they do not control themselves, then you should get yourself as far away from them as you can get so that when they do "explode", you will not be the one to get burned.
What do you do when he explodes? If he engages in any illegal behavior such as laying a single finger on you in a aggressive manner, throwing objects at you, making verbal threats to physically harm you, you call the police, have him arrested, and get a restraining order to prevent him from coming within x number of feet from you in future. If he tries to come around again, you call the police to have him arrested for violating that restraining order. If he is not yet at the point where he is breaking the law, then you look him straight in the eye and tell him that you deserve to be treated with respect and you will not tolerate this behavior ONE MORE SECOND. Then you either walk out the door yourself, or hold it open and invite him to leave. Tell him firmly that he knows where to find you when he has gotten himself under control and can behave in a civilized fashion.
The term for someone who tolerates physical or emotional abuse is "co-dependent". By accepting and not confronting this behavior, you send a message to the abuser that this behavior is acceptable. Abusive behavior tends to get worse over time. A bruise may become a broken arm or a choking incident. Insults may give way to threats to kill you. Both you and the abuser will be better off if the cycle is interrupted before he does something that can get him thrown in prison.
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Teleflex Utility Control Cables 10' With Handle End . An easy-to-install, easy-to-operate flexible cable for remote control of choke, throttle, shut off, fuel valves, vents and many other applications. Stainless steel core wire resists corrosion and moves easily in its non metallic liner, even after months of storage.
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Teleflex Part Ch2700p Universal Side Mount With Trim
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Single-lever, dual-function control. For virtually all single-Station OB's & stern drives with mechanical transmissions. Single-lever, dual-Action For throttle & shift. SurFace Mount design For quick, tidy installation. Features neutral warm-up capability. Includes hardware For two 3300/33 control cables. Positive shift detents & neutral lock-out. Weatherproof exterior, rugged die-cast frame. Meets/exceeds all appliCable industry standards.
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MotorGuide R3-55 HT Freshwater Trolling Motor
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MOTORGUIDE R355 HT 36 12V HAND CONTROL TRANSOM MOUNTThe R3 Transom mount is the ultimate in strength, rigidity and durability.
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Minn Kota Endura C2 Camo Waterfoul Edition - Hand Control - 12V-45lb-36"
from $ 257.82
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Livorsi Chrome Lh Blank Boat Pistol Control Handle USD 147.99
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Livorsi Purple Rh Pistol Grip Boat Control Handle USD 147.99
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Teleflex Twin Straight Handle Control, Chrome . Stylish low profile flush mount design available in several function and style options. For single or dual station applications with single or twin engines. Single function (each lever controls shift or throttle). Suits 33C type cables. Suits 33c type cables.
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Livorsi Platinum Lh Blank Boat Pistol Control Handle USD 147.99
This is a blank billet pistol control handle and does not feature the Livorsi logo. Livorsi's aircraft style billet pistol grips are modeled twin engine standard and billet controls and allow shorter movement of controls when throttling through rough waters. Comfortable design allows your arm to remain relaxed even during long periods of throttling time. Fits billet controls with arms 1/4 - 5/16 thick. Manufacturer: Livorsi Marine Material(s): Aluminum Color(s): Platinum Finish: Matte Fits: 1/4" - 5/16" thick arms
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UFlex Side-Mount Control with Trim Switch, chrome USD 439.99
This Single Lever dual action control from UFlex operates both throttle and shift. Now, you can shift safely and easily, because the UFlex controls prevent accidental gear engagement unless the engine is idling. Power trim switch is located in the handle grip for easy tilting of the engine. The pull-out handle disengages shift for warm-up, while neutral safety switch X12 prevents in-gear starting. Brake tension release system can be adjusted from the outside. positive lock-in neutral prevents accidental gear engagement. Suitable for any type of boats with outboard, inboard, or I/O power plants. Marine-grade aluminum with an attractive chrome finish; grip available in three colors. Exceeds EN ISO 11547 standards.
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Livorsi Bpgpl Rh Blank Boat Pistol Control Handle USD 147.99
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